How to be happy and a positive girly!
A guide you need to read containing 15 secrets to unlock your happiness – Learn how to be happy!
Nobody has the perfect life. It’s common for us to look at others and think that their life is all roses and daisies; but that’s just from our outside point of view. It’s very important we focus on our own lives and not be jealous of others, as we could always be worse off than we are. We can show you how to be happy in a few simple steps that shouldn’t take too much effort.
Here are my 15 secrets to unlock your happiness:
1. Boost your confidence
The first week of the month, is always worrying as we set ourselves expectations for the month ahead. It seems like a mission to get there. Instead of worrying about things to come, look at what you achieved last month, and the problems you have overcome. Be it a row with your boss that you managed to get over, something that has annoyed you that you managed to move on from; getting over a fear or worry that you had, or reaching a goal that has taken you a while to achieve. There is always something that you can be proud of.
2. Spend wisely
Yay! It’s payday! But before you do your usual, of spending it on all the latest clothes and accessories and blowing your wages within the first week; do something good for you. Get a facial or a massage, treat yourself to a new hair cut or colour; or go out for a meal with friends and socialise. Surveys have shown that people who spend their money on socialising with friends or their partner, do not regret wasting that money, as they have got an experience out of it. Those who waste it all on clothes, look back at the end of the month and regret spending that money.
3. Plan a holiday
We ALL need a break. Even if you just go away for a weekend, or spend one week away. It gives you a well deserved break, time to relax, and something to look forward to throughout the year. Search for cheap deals online, and you can get a real bargain! We’re positive this will show you how to be happy!
4. Find some you time
You don’t have to spend every night with your loved one. Set aside an evening here and there where you can do what you want to do. Download a fitness app, do some exercises, or download a meditation app where you will be at peace, and feel completely relaxed and positive after.
5. Post something positive
The majority of us all have an Instagram or a Facebook account that we post on now and again. Instead of trying to grab attention by posting something negative, and waiting for the comments to roll in; post something nice. Something you are looking forward to, a photo or a quote that makes you happy. Just something to show your not all doom and gloom.
6. Get cosy
It’s getting colder. Grab yourself a faux fur blanket, a thick fleecy dressing gown, or something made out of cashmere wool. Textures that are soft have been found to be emotionally comforting, so grab yourself a cup of tea, stock up and snuggle up!
7. Keep tidy
We know. It can be hard to find the time to keep your bedroom tidy. But making your bed every morning, bringing the cups down when you have finished with them, and picking up your socks from the middle of the floor, will save time when you get in from work, and you can just relax without wasting your evening picking up clutter. Having control of the little things in our lives, helps us to feel more in charge just generally.
8. Get shaking
This is a lot more fun than you would think! When we are stressed out, the neurons in our brain are messed up, but if you shake yourself about, it will trigger a relaxation response. So dance around to your favourite song! Bounce around, and shake your arms and legs! Trust me, it will bring a positive impact!
9. Give yourself some vitamins
Lacking energy? Feel drained and tired? You are probably lacking in vitamins. Make an appointment with your doctor to find out what vitamins you are lacking in, and buy some tablets. It could be B12 you need, Vitamin C, or even Zinc. If you can’t get these vitamins from the food you eat, then it is important you are getting in some other way, such as taking these supplements.
10. Be kind to a stranger
Is there someone standing on the bus or train because there are no seats left? Offer them yours! Are there homeless people that you walk past every day, without giving them a second look? Give them your spare change, or buy them a coffee! Most people will really appreciate your generosity and it will put a smile on your face as well as theirs! Give yourself a reason to feel proud!
11. Put your health first
Every now and then, swap that chocolate bar for a piece of fruit, and that glass of coke for a glass of water. This will benefit you in so many ways, such as improving your skin, giving you more energy, and feeling better all round.
12. Go for a jog one evening
It’s amazing how going for a run can put you in such a good mood. Yes it’s hard if you have never done it before, but start slowly and push yourself. You will come back aching, but feeling good! You feel like you have done something worthwhile, and can sit back and relax when you get in, feeling good about yourself, and your frame of mind will be more positive than before! Really!
13. Keep a diary
It’s been proven that we remember negative things more than the positive, and this is such a shame. Keeping a diary, will help you to remember the good things that have happened; and when you are feeling down you can look back through it and read memories that will bring a smile to your face and show you that you DO know how to be happy.
14. Have a duvet day
What a brilliant idea, I hear you say! We all love being lazy now and again, so one weekend spend a day doing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING! Yep, zero, zilch. Stay in bed and have a day of watching your favourite films, surfing the web on your laptop, or chilling to music. It will help you to completely relax, and you go back to work feeling like you have actually had break for once!
15. Get some fresh air
Put on your winter jacket and boots, and go outside for a walk. You don’t have to be out for long, but getting just 20 minutes of fresh air, will help clear your mind. Also there are always things to see along the way; such as a beautiful sky or flowers if your into nature. You can always snap a few photos of your sights. Feeling calmer and happier now?
I hope this list can help you, and try to remember that tomorrow is another day. If you’ve tried any of these tips; or have any you would like to share then please share in the comments box!
You CAN learn how to be happy! 🙂